The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

Curious about banana masturbation or seeing videos and threads about how to masturbate with a banana or even banana peel masturbation? You’re not the only one. The idea sounds simple, cheap, and—th...

Curious about the banana split sex position but not sure how to set it up without cramps or chaos? You’re in the right place. The banana split position is a playful mix of openness, angle control, ...

If you’re thinking “why is my pussy hot?” or you feel a burning vagina sensation, you’re not alone. Genital heat or burning can range from totally normal (increased blood flow when you’re turned on...

If you’ve wondered, “why does my penis feel warm?”, you’re not alone. A warm or hot penis can be completely normal (think: blood rushing in when you’re aroused) or a sign that something needs atten...
If you’re asking what lube to use with sex toys, good news: the right lube dramatically improves comfort, sensation, and safety—and it’s easy to choose once you know a few rules. The best lube for ...

Designing a dedicated intimacy space doesn’t require a mansion, a contractor, or a reality TV budget. If you’re wondering how to build a sex room (and what equipment you actually need), think of it...

If you’re wondering “do you have to be a certain age to buy a vibrator?” the short, practical answer in most places is yes—18+. While the exact wording of laws varies by country (and sometimes by s...

Searches like “household items to use as sex toys,” “homemade sex toys,” or “how to make a sex toy at home” usually come from the same place: curiosity, convenience, or privacy. You might be away f...

If you’re asking “can you buy sex toys under 18?”, here’s the short, practical answer in most places: No—expect 18+. While the exact wording of laws differs by country (and sometimes by state or pr...