The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

Curious about adding a whip for sex but unsure where to start? Great news: you don’t have to be a dominatrix to enjoy light impact play. With the right toy, clear consent, and a few safety rules, B...

If you’re wondering how old do you have to be to buy a dildo, you’re not alone. The short version in most places: 18+. That said, the details can get confusing fast—because there isn’t one, univers...

Most non-working vibrators are suffering from one of five things: travel-lock, low/failed battery, charger contact issues, wet or gunked buttons, or firmware/pairing hiccups (for remotes/apps). Sta...

The Femme Fun Booster Bullet is a compact, silicone-coated bullet with 20 vibration modes, a Boost button that jumps straight to max power, and a magnetic charging case for discreet storage. It’s w...
A vagina isn’t a fixed-size “tube” that’s either super tight or not—it’s a muscular, elastic canal that lengthens and widens with arousal and returns close to baseline afterward. What most people d...

The Njoy Pure Wand is a solid stainless-steel curve with a bulb on each end. It’s famous because the shape makes it easier to find and sustain pressure on the G-spot (front vaginal wall) and the pr...

For many people, yes—masturbation and orgasms can ease period cramps. During arousal and orgasm, your body releases natural pain-relieving and mood-lifting chemicals (endorphins, dopamine, serotoni...

Most men like three evergreen things in bed: feeling desired, clear cues, and great sensations. That translates to: Genuine enthusiasm (eye contact, little “yes” sounds, playful teasing) Short, sp...

Most men like three things that never go out of style: feeling desired, clear cues, and great sensations. That means: Show enthusiasm (eye contact, small “yes” sounds, guiding hands). Use simple ...