The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

If you’ve ever typed “things to use as a vibrator” or “what to use as a vibrator” into a search bar, you’re not alone. Sometimes the mood hits when you don’t have a toy handy—or you’re curious abou...

Short answer: not to “cure hysteria.” The popular tale that Victorian doctors invented vibrators because they were “tired” of manually treating women is now widely disputed by historians. The earli...

Curious about homemade adult toys but want to keep things safe, simple, and satisfying? This step‑by‑step guide walks you through how to make pocket pussy sleeves (aka a homemade fleshlight) using ...

If you’re searching how to make a homemade sex toy, you probably want something that feels good, is quick to assemble, and—most importantly—won’t irritate your skin. Below is a calm, step‑by‑step D...
If you’re curious about a DIY clit sucker or diy clit toys but want to keep things safe, clean, and easy, you’re in the right place. This guide explains how clit‑sucker toys really work (and why th...

Curious about inserting a butt plug but want a calm, clear walkthrough? This gentle, beginner‑first guide covers everything: how to choose the best anal plug for beginners, how to insert a butt plu...

If you’re craving something cozy, playful, and a little splashy, bathtub sex positions can be a gorgeous change of pace. Warm water, skin‑to‑skin closeness, easy eye contact—tub time is tailor‑made...

Learning how to ride a dildo is less about bravado and more about body awareness, comfort, and technique. Whether you’re curious about rideable dildos, prefer to ride on a dildo hands‑free, or want...

If you’re hunting for the most realistic dildo—the kind that looks and feels like the real thing—you’re not alone. Shoppers want plush, skin‑like softness on the outside, a firmer core that bends n...