The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.
Sex Guides

Do women like dildos? The short answer: many do, but preferences vary widely. Research shows that over 50% of women in the US use sex toys, with dildos being among the most popular options. However...

Breast bondage is a BDSM practice where rope, fabric, or other materials are used to bind, frame, or accentuate the breasts. Also called shinju in Japanese rope bondage, breast bondage creates visu...

The hanging garden sex position is an athletic standing position sex variation where one partner is lifted and held while penetration occurs. This challenging standing sex position offers deep pene...

Learning how to use a dildo for the first time should be comfortable, safe, and pleasurable. Whether you're using a dildo solo or with a partner, understanding proper dildo use—from choosing safe d...
The snail sex position—also called "the snail"—is a variation of missionary where the receiving partner brings their knees to their chest while lying on their back, creating an extremely tight, dee...

Male squirting—also called male ejaculation squirting or prostate-induced fluid release—is a lesser-known phenomenon where men release a small amount of clear, watery fluid (distinct from semen) du...

A somno kink, also known as somnophilia, is sexual arousal from engaging with a sleeping or unconscious partner. The somnophilia meaning centers on the fantasy or consensual roleplay of sleep sex—b...

Tantric sex positions emphasize spiritual connection, synchronized breathing, and prolonged intimacy over quick climax. Unlike acrobatic poses, these spiritual sex positions prioritize eye contact,...

Dominant sex positions put one partner in control of depth, speed, angle, and overall intensity. Whether you're exploring male dominant sex positions, female-led dominance, or simply want to try th...






























