The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

Short answer: for most healthy adults, ejaculating does not hurt your immune system. Available research is small but suggests the opposite in the short term: orgasm can trigger a brief uptick in so...

Want a sensual way to turn up the heat that doesn’t rely on screens? Relatos cachondos—Spanish erotic stories—invite you to build the scene in your mind, set the pace with your breath, and follow d...

Looking for a clear, confidence‑boosting answer to how to use a rabbit vibrator? You’ve found it. This guide explains what a rabbit sex toy is, why it’s so popular for blended (dual) stimulation, a...

Curious about the A‑spot orgasm and whether it’s real? You’re in the right place. The A‑spot (short for anterior fornix erogenous zone) is a sensitive region deep on the front (anterior) vaginal wa...
Curious about dominant sex positions but not sure where to start? Good news: being “dominant” isn’t about being harsh or pushy. It’s about leading with care, setting the pace, and creating a shared...

Straddle sex is all about closeness and control. One partner straddles the other—literally sits or kneels with a leg on each side—so you can make eye contact, set the pace, and adjust pressure in r...

If you’re wondering how long should you leave a butt plug in, you’re not alone. The short answer: for most people, keep wear-time short—about 15–30 minutes per session—and never wear a plug all day...

Telephone sex can be tender, playful, or downright electric—even if you’re miles apart. Done well, it deepens intimacy, builds anticipation, and helps you learn each other’s turn‑ons without the pr...
VR intimacy is more than a headset fad—it’s a new way people connect, flirt, play, and sometimes fall in love across distance. From a private VR sex experience with synced toys to consent‑forward v...