The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

Here’s a gentle, practical guide to how to pleasure yourself without toys—for anybody. You’ll learn hands‑only techniques, full‑body arousal ideas, breath and pelvic‑floor tricks, and safe alternat...

Short answer: Blowjobs weren’t “invented” at a single moment in time. Oral sex clinically called fellatio appears throughout ancient art and texts long before the modern slang word “blowjob” existe...

This gay sex positions guide is designed to help you feel informed, safe, and confident whether you’re topping, bottoming, or vers. You’ll find beginner‑friendly moves, more adventurous ideas, toy ...

An MMF threesome can be playful, intimate, and surprisingly tender when you approach it with clarity and care. This guide explains what MMF means, sets you up with safer‑sex and etiquette basics, a...
A wave vibrator takes everything people love about classic rabbit toys—dual stimulation for the clitoris and the front vaginal wall—and adds a finger‑like, rolling “come‑hither” motion inside. The ...

The sex positions standing up category is all about intensity, connection, and creative angles—without needing a bed. In this guide you’ll find the easiest standing sex positions to start with, sma...

The standing up sex position adds intensity, eye contact, and a spontaneous vibe to your routine. It’s not just about novelty—standing up sex positions can change angles, deepen intimacy, and give ...

If you’re ready to try anal for the first time, the best place to start is with a plan—not pressure. This guide covers the best position for first‑time anal, how to prepare (lube, protection, and c...

Curious about handcuff sex positions but want a clear, safety-first guide? You’re in the right place. Below you’ll find beginner-friendly positions with handcuffs, how to choose soft padded cuffs o...