The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

In the mood but don’t own a dildo (yet)? You’re not alone. Lots of people search what to use if you don’t have a dildo—and wind up with risky “hacks” that can lead to irritation, infections, or a p...

If you’ve ever wondered “can you desensitize your clitoris?”—especially after a strong vibrator session—you’re not alone. Many people worry about a desensitized clitoris, ask whether vibrators decr...

Clitorodynia, clitoral pain that can burn, sting, throb, or feel raw—has many possible causes, from skin irritation to nerve issues. In medical language, clitorodynia is considered a localized subt...

If you’re comparing a glass vs silicone dildo, you’re already asking the right question. Material shapes everything—from the feel and pressure to temperature play, lubricant compatibility, cleaning...
If your clitoris feels less sensitive, looks smaller, or seems “hidden” under the hood, you might wonder whether you’re experiencing clitoris atrophy (also called clitoral atrophy or “clit atrophy”...

If you’ve ever wished solo time felt less rushed and more meaningful, this tantric masturbation guide is for you. Rather than “getting off” as fast as possible, tantric masturbation invites slow, m...

Short answer: For most people, clitoral atrophy isn’t permanent. The clitoris itself doesn’t “disappear,” but the glans can look smaller, feel less sensitive, or seem hidden under the hood when hor...

If you’re shopping your first toy (or upgrading an old favorite), you’ve probably asked: what’s the difference between a dildo and a vibrator? In simple terms, a dildo is typically a non‑motorized ...

Short answer: No—your clit can’t “fall off.” The clitoris is not a tiny, detachable button; it’s a complex erectile organ with internal roots (the crura and bulbs) anchored under the pelvic bone. O...