The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.
Backdoor sex refers to anal intercourse or anal play—intimate activity involving the anus and rectum. This includes penetration with fingers, toys, or a penis, as well as external stimulation. Whil...
A spreader bar is a restraint device featuring a rigid bar with attachment points (usually cuffs) at each end. When secured to ankles or wrists, the bar holds limbs apart at a fixed distance, creat...
Warm weather, longer days, and vacation vibes create opportunities for adventurous intimacy. Summer offers unique benefits: fewer clothing layers, outdoor possibilities, increased energy from sunli...
A pure lubricant contains minimal ingredients, avoids harsh chemicals, and focuses on body-safe formulations without unnecessary additives. The term "pure" typically signals that the product exclud...
A threesome involves three people engaging in intimate activity together. Success depends far more on communication, emotional preparation, and clear boundaries than on physical technique. The most...
Brat play is a consensual power dynamic where one person (the brat) playfully challenges, teases, or "misbehaves" to provoke a response from their partner (the dominant or "brat tamer"). Unlike tra...
Intimacy is the feeling of being deeply known, accepted, and connected to another person—or even to yourself. It goes far beyond physical touch or romantic relationships. True connection involves v...
Plus size sex toys aren't a separate category—they're simply devices designed with ergonomic features that work better for curvy bodies, fuller figures, and anyone who finds standard toys uncomfort...
Shallowing refers to intentional shallow penetration during intercourse or toy play—typically using just the first 1–3 inches of the vaginal or anal canal. Instead of deep thrusting, partners focus...
