The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

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Trying a vibrator for the first time can feel exciting—and a little intimidating. Maybe you’ve wondered what using a vibrator feels like, how to pick the right type, or how to use a vibrator safely...

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