The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.

Curious about buttplug play but want a calm, practical roadmap? You’re in the right place. This beginner‑friendly guide walks you through how to prepare for anal, how to prep for a butt plug, and h...

Curious about kink but not sure where to begin? This BDSM how to guide breaks everything down simply—consent, communication, beginner gear, how to tie BDSM restraints, and scene ideas—so you can ex...

Looking for weird ways to masturbate—but want ideas that are actually fun, safe, and practical? You’re in the right place. Below you’ll find unusual masturbation methods, sensory hacks, creative ro...

If you love closeness and eye contact, the sitting straddle sex position is a gentle, connected way to make sex feel more intimate—and more controllable. In the sitting straddle position, one partn...
If you’re wondering how to charge vibrator devices the right way—without frying the battery or killing the mood—this guide has you covered. We’ll show you how to charge a vibrator step by step (mag...

Wondering how to charge a dildo or any rechargeable vibrator without ruining the battery—or the mood? This beginner‑friendly guide covers charging methods (magnetic, pin, USB‑C, dock), how to read ...

Ready to take intimacy outside? This calm, practical guide to outdoor sex positions gives you creative ideas that are comfortable, discreet, and easy to try. You’ll get prep tips, safety basics, an...

If you’ve ever wondered how was sex invented, the short answer is: no one “invented” sex. Sexual reproduction is an ancient evolutionary solution—older than animals, older than plants, older than u...

Bodies change. Desire doesn’t have to. If you’re searching for mature sex positions that feel good on real‑world joints, backs, and energy levels, this gentle, practical guide is for you. We’ll cov...