The Jissentials
Weekly explorations by Jissbon on contemporary intimacy through wellness, culture, and connection—where pleasure meets confidence.
Sex Guides

The "best" sex position depends entirely on what you're seeking—deep penetration, clitoral stimulation, emotional intimacy, G-spot access, anal comfort, or accommodating physical limitations. No si...

The scissoring position offers intimate, full-body contact for partners seeking mutual pleasure without penetration. Despite its portrayal in media, this technique requires communication, patience,...

The 69 position—where partners simultaneously perform oral sex on each other—offers unique intimacy through reciprocal pleasure. This configuration requires coordination, communication, and comfort...

Handcuffs transform ordinary intimacy into an adventure of anticipation, trust, and heightened sensation. Whether you're using fuzzy novelty cuffs, adjustable Velcro restraints, or bed restraint sy...
Breast sex—also called boob sex, titty fucking, or a "pearl necklace position"—is an intimate act that focuses on breast stimulation and pleasure. It's a form of outercourse that many couples enjoy...

When it comes to what feels best in bed, preferences vary widely—but patterns emerge. Survey data and intimate conversations reveal that most women prioritize positions offering clitoral stimulatio...

Taking the top position during sex offers control, varied sensations, and the chance to direct your own pleasure. Whether you're curious about trying it for the first time or looking to refine your...

The speed bump—also called the prone bone or flat doggy—offers a unique angle for penetration that many couples find intensely satisfying. This position combines the deep access of rear-entry with ...

Queening—also called face-sitting—puts the receiving partner in a position of control during oral pleasure. This practice involves one person straddling their partner's face while receiving stimula...




























