How to Use the Njoy Pure Wand: Beginner Guide & Reviews

The Njoy Pure Wand is a solid stainless-steel curve with a bulb on each end. It’s famous because the shape makes it easier to find and sustain pressure on the G-spot (front vaginal wall) and the prostate (front rectal wall). The material is ultra-smooth, body-safe, and great for temperature play; the weight means you don’t have to “muscle” your arm to get deep, rumbly pressure.

This beginner guide shows how to use Njoy Pure Wand step by step—solo and with a partner—plus setup, angles, lube, hygiene, and a quick “reviews round-up” of what users typically praise and what trips people up at first.

Quick anatomy refresher (90 seconds)

• G-spot (anterior vaginal wall): Usually 4–6 cm (1.5–2.5 in) inside, toward the belly button. Many describe it as a slightly spongier/ridged zone. It often prefers steady pressure + small arcs, not fast pokes.
• Prostate (anterior rectal wall): Usually 5–7 cm (2–3 in) inside, toward the belly button. Most people with prostates like gentle rhythmic pressure more than jabby thrusts.

The Pure Wand’s C-shaped curve and two bulb sizes are tailor-made to reach these front-wall targets without awkward wrist angles.

What’s in the box (and what you’ll need)

• Pure Wand (two ends: larger bulb for broad pressure, smaller bulb for precision)
• Lube: Water-based or high-quality silicone (avoid silicone if you plan to mix with certain silicone toys; steel itself is compatible with both)
• Towel + toy cleaner / mild soap
• Optional: Nitrile gloves (for anal), condoms (if sharing), heating pad/ice for temperature play, and a blanket or pillow for hip support

Safety in one minute (you’ll actually use this)

• Go slow. Steel is heavy and unforgiving; let the tool’s weight work, not your biceps.
• Lube generously. Reapply anytime you feel drag.
• Angles, not force. If it feels pokey, reduce angle, switch bulb size, or back off a centimeter and re-approach.
  
• Anal: flared-base rule. The Pure Wand’s curve and bulbs create handling points, but for anal play always keep a firm grip and never let go of the external arc.
• Sharing & switching: Use condoms on the tool if sharing or moving between anal and vaginal play; wash between orifices.
• Aftercare: Hydrate, pee after vaginal play, and rest tender tissues.

How to use Njoy Pure Wand for G-spot (solo)

Goal: sustained, rumbly front-wall pressure with micro-motion—not frantic thrusting.

1) Set up

• Warm the room; put a towel under you.
• Add two pillows under your hips or lower back. This tilts the pelvis, bringing the G-spot closer.
• Place lube, tissues, and water within reach.

2) Warm up (2–5 min)

• External touch first: clitoris, labia, inner thighs.
• Add a tiny amount of lube at the entrance; trace a fingertip along the front wall to orient yourself.

3) Choose a bulb

• Small bulb: precision and lighter pressure.
• Large bulb: broader, deeper massage (many beginners love this once warmed).

4) Insert & angle

• Hold the curve so the bulb points up toward your navel.
• Insert just past the entrance; aim for the front wall at a shallow angle.
• Think “scoop”: start a come-hither arc of 1–3 cm (½–1 in). Slow. Lubed.

5) Let gravity work

• Relax your hand; rest the external arc on your pubic mound or thigh so the weight creates pressure.
• Micro-motion: tiny arcs or slow circles. Pause and hold when a sweet spot “blooms.”

6) Breathe & build

• Inhale 4, exhale 6–8. Increase pressure in millimeters, not centimeters.
• Add clitoral touch (hand or small vibe) if you like blended orgasms.

7) Finish & aftercare

• Withdraw slowly; squeeze pelvic floor gently to re-sensitize.
• Drink water; a warm compress can soothe pleasantly “worked-out” muscles.

Common beginner fixes

• “I feel nothing.” Raise your hips, use the larger bulb, and slow down. Often it’s angle + patience.
• “It’s pokey.” Reduce angle, add more lube, or use the smaller bulb first.
• “Too intense.” Switch to micro-holds (steady pressure, no motion) and shorten the arc.

How to use Njoy Pure Wand for prostate (solo)

Goal: rhythmic, front-wall pressure with small arcs; comfort and lube are everything.

1) Prep

• Empty bowels if possible; wash hands; consider a shower.
• Lay a towel; keep lots of lube handy.

2) Warm-up external (2–4 min)

• Massage perineum (between scrotum and anus) with a lubed knuckle or bullet vibe.
• Contract-release pelvic floor a few times to bring blood flow.

3) Lube & insert

• Coat the smaller bulb and the first ⅓ of the curve in lube.
• Side-lying with a pillow between knees is easy for beginners; go millimeter by millimeter.
• Aim the tip toward the navel to contact the prostate area.

4) Find the rhythm

• Use tiny presses or 1–2 cm arcs; pause often.
• If you feel “full” pressure and a warm “need-to-pee” sensation, you’re close (that’s common). Dial down, breathe, continue gently.

5) Blend stimulation

• Many enjoy external strokes on shaft or perineum while the wand holds steady inside.
• Keep one hand on the external arc at all times for control.

6) Aftercare

• Withdraw slowly; clean thoroughly.
• If you’re new to anal play, give tissues a day before going again.

Common beginner fixes

• “It won’t go in comfortably.” More lube, more time, and a shallower angle. Warm bath helps.
• “Numbing / too strong.” Take breaks; hold steady pressure rather than moving; switch bulb size.

Partnered play (two simple scripts)

For G-spot (receiver on back, giver kneeling):

• Slide a pillow under receiver’s hips.
• Giver holds the arc like a ladle, bulb up, and leans the curve rather than pushing.
• Receiver places a hand over giver’s to signal “more/less/there.”

For prostate (receiver side-lying):

• Giver sits behind receiver, one hand supporting the external arc.
• Micro-press, count three, then release; repeat.
• Add a sleeve/hand on the shaft or a vibe on the perineum for blended sensations.

Temperature play (beginner-safe)

• Warm: Place the bulb end on a heating pad or under warm water for 2–3 minutes. Test on inner wrist before insertion.
• Cool: Rest on ice-pack for 1–2 minutes (not freezing). Great for contrast if you’ll add a warm compress after.

Rotate warm/cool in short sets; temperature contrast often heightens sensitivity without adding speed or force.

Lube guide (short & useful)

• Water-based: universal compatibility, easy cleanup; may need top-ups.
• Silicone: longer-lasting; fantastic with steel; avoid if you plan to mix with silicone toys unless you barrier.
• Oil-based: avoid with latex barriers; can be messy; skip if you’re prone to irritation.

Cleaning & storage

• Wash with mild soap + warm water before and after play.
• Dry completely (steel won’t rust, but moisture collects in storage bags).
• Store in the original case or a clean pouch to avoid scratches.
• If sharing, consider condoms on the bulb and wash between users/orifices.

Njoy Wand reviews: what people typically love (and what they don’t)

Frequently praised

• Reliability: It “just finds” the spot and stays there with little wrist effort.
• Material feel: Glassy-smooth, luxury heft, and temperature options.
• Blended orgasms: Many G-spot users report squirting when the angle is right; prostate users praise the deep, throbbing pressure.

Common complaints

• Weight learning curve: A few sessions to master angle without over-pressing.
• Too intense at first: Starting cold, dry, or rushed leads to “pokey” sensations—warm up + lube fix this.
• Storage/stealth: It’s a substantial object; plan where you’ll keep it.

Real-world tip: Most “meh” first impressions come from going too fast. When users slow down and let the weight do the work, reviews tend to flip to “oh—now I get it.”

Pure Wand vs. flexible G-spot vibrators (when to choose what)

• Pure Wand (steel): Deep, consistent pressure, perfect for pressure-lovers and temperature play, silent, great for those who prefer non-vibe stimulation.
• Hybrid nights: Use a vibe externally while the Pure Wand holds steady internally. Or swap: start with flexible warm-up, finish with steel pressure.

Troubleshooting (fast fixes)

• I can’t find the spot: Elevate hips, switch to the larger bulb, shorten the arc, and aim toward the navel.
• It feels sharp: More lube; reduce angle; try small bulb first; add 30–60 seconds of external warm-up.
• Arm fatigue: Plant the external arc on your pubic mound or thigh and pivot instead of lifting.
• Too intense with vibes: Use non-vibe stroking or hold pressure steady and let breath build arousal.
• Anal discomfort: Back out 1 cm, reset angle, re-lube. Consider side-lying; never force entry.

A beginner-friendly 15-minute sequence (copy/paste)

1. Minutes 0–3: Warm up externally (clitoris/perineum/inner thighs). Breathe slow.
2. Minutes 3–5: Add lube; insert small bulb just past entrance; aim toward navel.
3. Minutes 5–8: Micro-arcs or steady holds on front wall; adjust angle by millimeters.
4. Minutes 8–10: Switch to large bulb if you want deeper massage; keep arcs tiny.
5. Minutes 10–12: Blend stimulation (hand or small vibe externally).
6. Minutes 12–15: Hold the best angle; let waves build. Withdraw slowly; hydrate and relax.

Frequently Asked Questions 

How do I use the Njoy Pure Wand for G-spot if I’ve never felt it before?

Raise your hips on a pillow, use the larger bulb, and think slow scoops (1–3 cm arcs) toward your navel. Add external clitoral touch to help tissues swell; many feel the spot more clearly once aroused.

Which end should I start with?

Most beginners start with the smaller bulb to get comfortable, then switch to the larger bulb for broad pressure. If you love deep massage, you might prefer starting large after warm-up.

Can I use the Pure Wand for prostate play as a beginner?

Yes—go slow, use lots of lube, and keep one hand on the external curve. Side-lying is easiest. Focus on rhythmic pressure, not thrusting.

Does the Pure Wand work without vibration?

That’s its superpower—weight + angle create rumbly, sustained pressure many people find more satisfying than buzz alone.

How do I clean it between partners or orifices?

Wash with mild soap and warm water; dry thoroughly. Use condoms on the bulb if you’re sharing and change them between anal and vaginal play.

Will it make me squirt (G-spot) or have stronger prostate orgasms?

Possibly. Plenty of users report squirting and very deep orgasms once they dial in angle and pressure. Results vary; go slow, breathe, and let arousal build.

Any tips if I have wrist issues?

Let the external arc rest on your body and pivot the curve. The tool’s weight should do most of the work.