How to Squirt with Dildo: Complete G-Spot Stimulation Guide

Learning how to squirt with dildo requires understanding G-spot anatomy (located 2-3 inches inside vaginal canal on front wall), selecting toys with upward curve and firm pressure capability, building high arousal before attempting squirting-focused stimulation, and releasing mental barriers including fear of urination sensation.

Understanding how to squirt with a dildo involves recognizing that squirting expulsion of fluid from Skene's glands during intense G-spot stimulation doesn't occur for everyone despite proper technique, requires patience and multiple practice sessions, and how to squirt using a dildo successfully depends on relaxation, consistent rhythmic pressure, and letting go of performance expectations.

This guide covers G-spot location, best dildo characteristics for squirting, step-by-step stimulation techniques, managing "need to pee" sensation, and realistic expectations about female ejaculation.Let's explore G-spot stimulation techniques that may lead to squirting experiences.

Who Benefits from Squirting Guidance?

Understanding G-spot stimulation helps various users:

• Those curious about squirting wanting educational information
• People who've never squirted wanting to explore possibility
• Users frustrated by unsuccessful attempts needing technique refinement
• Anyone wanting intense G-spot orgasms regardless of squirting outcome
• Couples exploring new experiences together
• Those intimidated by squirting myths needing factual information
• People concerned about "mess" wanting preparation guidance
• Users wanting to understand their anatomy better

According to information about female ejaculation, squirting involves fluid expulsion from Skene's glands (female prostate) near the urethra during intense sexual stimulation, though not all people with vaginas experience this phenomenon.

Understanding Squirting and G-Spot Anatomy

Essential knowledge foundation:

What is Squirting?

Female ejaculation:

• Expulsion of fluid from Skene's glands (paraurethral glands)
• Typically occurs during intense G-spot stimulation
• Fluid composition: mostly diluted urine with some prostatic fluid
• Amount varies: few drops to significant volume

Not everyone squirts: Research suggests 10-54% of women experience squirting at some point. Inability to squirt doesn't indicate dysfunction.

G-Spot Location

Finding the G-spot:

• Located 2-3 inches inside vagina
• On front wall (toward belly button)
• Feels slightly rougher or ridged compared to surrounding tissue
• Swells when aroused
• Not everyone finds distinct G-spot area

Sensitivity: Sensitivity varies greatly. Some find intense pleasure; others feel little sensation.

From Jissbon: While G-spot vibrators offer targeted stimulation, achieving squirting depends on individual anatomy, arousal level, and mental relaxation more than specific toy.

Best Dildo Characteristics for Squirting

Toy selection matters:

Curved Shape

Upward curve essential:

• Targets front vaginal wall naturally
• Maintains pressure on G-spot
• Allows leverage for firm pressure
• Angle mimics "come hither" finger motion

Straight dildos: Can work but require more intentional angling.

Firm Material

Pressure capability:

• Firm enough to apply consistent pressure
• Glass, stainless steel, or firm silicone ideal
• Very soft/flexible toys can't provide needed firmness

Balance: Some flexibility comfortable, but too much reduces effectiveness.

Bulbous or Textured Head

Enhanced contact:

• Rounded or bulbous head increases G-spot contact surface
• Ridges or texture add stimulation
• Larger head than shaft catches on G-spot

Appropriate Size

Length:

• 5-7 inches insertable typically sufficient
• G-spot is shallow (2-3 inches inside)
• Extra length allows grip/leverage

Girth:

• 1.25-1.5 inches diameter comfortable for most
• Too thin may not provide enough pressure
• Too thick can be uncomfortable

How to Squirt with a Dildo: Step-by-Step Technique

Detailed process:

Step 1: Build High Arousal First

Pre-squirting arousal:

1. Engage in foreplay (solo or partnered)
2. Achieve at least one clitoral orgasm first (optional but helpful)
3. Use clitoral stimulation to build arousal
4. Get extremely aroused before attempting G-spot focus
5. Mental and physical readiness crucial

Why arousal matters: G-spot becomes more sensitive and engorged when highly aroused. Attempting on low arousal rarely successful.

Step 2: Empty Bladder Beforehand

Preparation:

• Use bathroom 10-15 minutes before
• Reduces "need to pee" concern
• Allows mental relaxation about sensation
• Place towel under hips

Towel essential: Protects bedding from fluid. Reduces anxiety about mess.

Step 3: Insert Dildo and Locate G-Spot

Insertion:

1. Apply generous water-based lubricant to dildo and entrance
2. Insert dildo 2-3 inches
3. Angle upward toward belly button
4. Feel for slightly rough or ridged area on front wall
5. May feel like needing to urinate (normal)

Step 4: Apply Firm, Consistent Pressure

Stimulation technique:

1. Press dildo head firmly against G-spot
2. Use rhythmic "come hither" or thrusting motion
3. Maintain consistent pressure (don't ease up)
4. Speed: Moderate to fast rhythm often most effective
5. Continue for 5-15+ minutes

Persistence required: Unlike clitoral orgasms, G-spot squirting may take sustained effort.

Step 5: Push Through "Urination" Sensation

Critical moment:

• Intense pressure may feel like needing to urinate
• This sensation precedes squirting
• You must "push out" or "bear down" when sensation peaks
• Holding back prevents squirting

Mental barrier: Fear of urinating stops most people. Trust that you emptied bladdersensation is squirting fluid building.

Step 6: Bear Down and Release

Squirting moment:

1. When urination sensation peaks, push out (like urinating or having bowel movement)
2. Continue G-spot stimulation while pushing
3. Don't pull dildo outkeep pressure on G-spot
4. Release mental control

If it happens: May feel gush or squirt of fluid. Amount varies greatly.

Techniques Comparison: Squirting Methods

Managing the "Urination" Sensation

Overcoming mental barriers:

Understanding the Feeling

Why it feels like urinating:

• Skene's glands near urethra
• Pressure on this area mimics bladder fullness
• Fluid building in glands creates similar sensation
• Not actual urine (mostly)

Trusting Your Body

Mental work:

• Remind yourself you emptied bladder
• Towel protects bedding even if small urine release
• Letting go of control necessary for squirting
• Performance anxiety prevents success

Practice Sessions

Building confidence:

• First attempts may not succeednormal
• Try multiple times over several sessions
• Reduce pressure to "perform"
• Focus on pleasurable sensation, not outcome

Combining Techniques for Success

Enhanced stimulation:

Dual Stimulation

G-spot + clitoral:

• Use dildo on G-spot
• Add clitoral vibrator or manual stimulation
• Heightened arousal increases squirting likelihood
• Many find this combination most effective

Edging Technique

Building intensity:

• Bring yourself close to orgasm
• Back off slightly
• Repeat several times
• Final push more likely to produce squirting

Partnered Assistance

With partner:

• Partner controls dildo while you focus on relaxation
• Allows you to concentrate on sensation
• Communication essential ("harder," "keep going," "right there")
• Remove performance pressure

Realistic Expectations About Squirting

Managing expectations:

Not Everyone Squirts

Individual variation:

• Anatomy variessome have more developed Skene's glands
• No amount of "correct technique" guarantees success
• Inability to squirt doesn't mean dysfunction
• G-spot orgasms still intensely pleasurable without squirting

Amount Varies Greatly

Fluid volume:

• Some experience few drops
• Others experience significant gush
• Amount doesn't indicate "better" orgasm
• Media portrayals exaggerate typical amounts

Takes Practice

Learning curve:

• Most don't squirt first attempt
• May take 5-10+ practice sessions
• Technique refinement through experimentation
• Mental relaxation develops over time

It's Messy

Practical reality:

• Fluid release can be significant
• Towels, waterproof blankets helpful
• Some find mess part of appeal; others find it inconvenient
• Cleanup required

Cleaning and Aftercare

Post-squirting considerations:

Immediate Cleanup

After session:

• Change towels/bedding if wet
• Shower if desired
• Stay hydrated (fluid loss)
• Empty bladder again

Toy Cleaning

Dildo care:

1. Wash dildo with toy cleaner or mild soap
2. Rinse thoroughly
3. Dry completely
4. Store properly

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you squirt with a dildo?

Squirt with dildo by: building high arousal (achieving clitoral orgasm first helps), emptying bladder beforehand, inserting curved dildo 2-3 inches angled upward toward belly button, locating G-spot (rough area on front vaginal wall), applying firm consistent pressure with rhythmic thrusting for 5-15+ minutes, recognizing intense "need to urinate" sensation as fluid building, and bearing down/pushing out when sensation peaks while maintaining G-spot pressure. Use generous water-based lube and towel protection. Mental relaxation and releasing fear of urination critical for success.

What is the best dildo for squirting?

Best dildo for squirting features: pronounced upward curve targeting G-spot, firm material (glass, stainless steel, or firm silicone) providing consistent pressure, bulbous or textured head increasing G-spot contact, 5-7 inches insertable length allowing grip/leverage, and 1.25-1.5 inches diameter providing adequate pressure without discomfort.

G-spot-specific dildos designed with these features most effective. Curved shape mimics "come hither" finger motion naturally. Avoid very soft/flexible toys lacking pressure capability. Size matters less than shape and firmness.

Why can't I squirt with a dildo?

Common reasons for squirting difficulty include: insufficient arousal before G-spot stimulation (build arousal with clitoral stimulation first), holding back when "urination" sensation occurs (must push out/bear down), using dildo without proper curve/firmness, not applying enough pressure on G-spot (needs firm, consistent pressure), removing dildo when sensation peaks (maintain pressure throughout), anatomical variation (not everyone has highly sensitive G-spot or developed Skene's glands), insufficient practice attempts (learning curve normal), and performance anxiety preventing relaxation. Not everyone squirts despite correct techniqueanatomical variation normal.

How long does it take to squirt with dildo?

Squirting with dildo typically requires: 20-40 minutes total session time including foreplay and arousal building, 5-15+ minutes of sustained firm G-spot pressure after high arousal achieved, and multiple practice sessions over weeks to months before first success for many users.

Some achieve squirting quickly; others never do despite proper technique. Building arousal first criticalattempting on low arousal rarely successful. G-spot stimulation requires more sustained effort than clitoral orgasms. Patience, practice, and releasing outcome expectations increase success likelihood. Focus on pleasurable sensation rather than timeline.

Is squirting the same as orgasm?

No, squirting is not the same as orgasm, though they can occur simultaneously. Squirting is fluid expulsion from Skene's glands during intense G-spot stimulation physical release of fluid. Orgasm is neurological/muscular response involving pleasure peaks and rhythmic contractions.

Can experience: squirting without orgasm, orgasm without squirting, or both together. Some find squirting intensely pleasurable; others feel neutral about fluid release itself. G-spot orgasms (with or without squirting) feel different from clitoral orgasmsdeeper, more full-body sensation. Both squirting and orgasm valid experiences independent of each other.

What does squirting fluid look like?

Squirting fluid typically: clear or slightly cloudy in color, odorless or faint smell, watery thin consistency (not thick/viscous), and varies in amount from few drops to cup or more. Composition: mostly diluted urine with prostatic fluid from Skene's glands.

May notice slight urine scent due to composition, which is normal and not cause for concern. Consistency differs from vaginal lubrication (which is thicker, more viscous). Color/amount variation normal. Use towels for cleanup as fluid can be significant volume for some people.

Final Thoughts

Understanding how to squirt with dildo involves mastering G-spot location and firm, consistent stimulation technique while equally important factors include building extremely high arousal beforehand, managing "urination" sensation through mental relaxation and pushing out rather than holding back, and accepting that not everyone squirts despite correct technique due to anatomical variation.

While learning how to squirt with a dildo requires patience through multiple practice sessions, releasing performance pressure, and potentially 20-40 minutes per session including arousal building, how to squirt using a dildo successfully depends more on mental barriers, trust in emptied bladder, and willingness to "let go" than perfect physical technique.

Whether squirting occurs or not, G-spot stimulation with curved, firm dildos provides intense pleasure experiences worth exploring regardless of fluid release outcome.If you're exploring G-spot focused pleasure, G-spot vibrators include various curved designs specifically targeting this sensitive area for intense internal stimulation.