How to Have a Prostate Orgasm With a Dildo: Best Prostate Dildos & Step‑by‑Step Guide (2025)
Curious about prostate orgasms but not sure where to begin? You’re not alone.
Prostate stimulation has been called the “male G-spot experience” — a deep, full-body orgasm that feels different from anything achieved through traditional penile stimulation. Yet despite its powerful pleasure potential, many men hesitate due to stigma, fear, or lack of information.
In this guide, we’ll show you how to safely and confidently explore prostate play using a dildo. Whether you’re completely new or have tried prostate massagers before, this article walks you through everything: the anatomy of pleasure, how to choose the right toy, and expert-backed techniques to help you hit that perfect spot.
You’ll also find curated product recommendations — including top picks like the E-Bass Rocker and E-Gale Wind — all designed for comfort, control, and next-level satisfaction.
What Is a Prostate Orgasm?
Many people wonder: how is a prostate orgasm different from a regular one? The answer lies deep inside the body — in a small but powerful gland known as the prostate.
Located about 2–3 inches inside the anus on the front (anterior) wall, the prostate is part of the male reproductive system. When stimulated correctly, it can trigger an intense, full-body orgasm that feels more internal, pulsing, and longer-lasting than typical penile climaxes. Some describe it as a wave-like release that builds slower but finishes more powerfully.
Unlike ejaculation-focused orgasms, prostate orgasms don’t always involve ejaculation — but they can produce deep muscular contractions, emotional release, and even multiple orgasms for some users.
Research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine suggests that direct prostate stimulation activates nerve pathways that amplify orgasmic sensation through the pelvic floor and anal sphincter muscles.
To unlock this experience, you'll need to locate the prostate and stimulate it with the right pressure, angle, and rhythm — often best achieved with a curved dildo or prostate-specific toy.
Exploring prostate orgasms isn’t just about pleasure — it’s about knowing your body and taking control of it. With the right approach, anyone can learn how to have a prostate orgasm with a dildo safely and confidently.
When it comes to prostate pleasure, both dildos and prostate massagers can help you reach orgasm — but they work differently and feel different too.
A prostate dildo is typically a non-vibrating, curved toy designed for manual control. You decide the angle, pressure, and motion, which gives you total tactile feedback. These are great for users who want a simple, no-fuss experience, or prefer slow, deliberate exploration. Many dildos also double as G-spot toys, making them versatile for couples or solo play.
A prostate massager, on the other hand, often includes vibration, pulsation, or rotating features. These toys are usually designed with a flared base and ergonomic shape to target the prostate automatically, sometimes even hands-free. Most models also stimulate the perineum (the external area between the anus and scrotum), creating a two-in-one pleasure effect.
Key Differences:
| Feature | Dildo | Prostate Massager |
| Control Type | Manual | Automated / Remote-controlled |
| Stimulation Style | Pressure & motion | Vibration & precision targeting |
| Learning Curve | Moderate (requires technique) | Beginner-friendly |
| Power Source | None | Rechargeable/battery-powered |
| Best For | Full control & depth play | Hands-free stimulation & ease |
If you’re new to prostate play, a massager like the E-Gale Wind is a great starting point. More advanced users may prefer a dildo-style option for deeper, intentional control, such as the E-Bass Rocker that blends both styles.
Choosing the Best Dildo for Prostate Orgasm
Not all dildos are created equal — especially when it comes to hitting the prostate. The best dildo for prostate stimulation is one that matches your anatomy, experience level, and comfort preferences.
Curved Shape
The prostate is located about 2–3 inches inside the anus, toward the belly. That means you’ll want a dildo with a pronounced curve or angled tip that naturally presses against the anterior wall.
Firm Yet Flexible Material
Medical-grade silicone is ideal — it’s body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. You want a dildo that’s firm enough to apply pressure, but soft enough to avoid discomfort.
Flared Base
Safety first: a flared base or handle prevents the toy from going too deep. It also gives you better control during insertion and movement.
Size Matters
For beginners, start smaller — around 1 inch in diameter and 4–5 inches in length. More advanced users may enjoy thicker or longer toys for deeper pressure.
Best Prostate Massagers in 2025
When it comes to achieving consistent, toe-curling prostate orgasms, a well-designed prostate massager can be a total game-changer. Unlike traditional dildos, these toys are engineered for hands-free pleasure, offering vibrations, curved angles, and perineum stimulation to help you unlock deeper sensations.
E-Bass Rocker by JISSBON
Best for Dual-Zone Stimulation
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Remote-controlled, with 10 vibration modes
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Targets both prostate and perineum simultaneously
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Ergonomic design with a flared base for safety
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Ideal for intermediate to advanced users
E-Gale Wind by JISSBON
Best for Beginners
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Slim, curved, and incredibly beginner-friendly
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Medical-grade silicone, whisper-quiet motor
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Great for learning how to angle and apply pressure
Aneros Helix Syn V
Best Manual Control with Vibration Option
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Popular for its non-intrusive design and hands-free use
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Great for those who enjoy subtle stimulation
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Lacks perineum focus but wins on simplicity
Lovense Edge 2
Best App-Controlled Toy for Long-Distance Play
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Bluetooth connectivity for partner play
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Adjustable arm for personalized prostate pressure
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Premium pricing, but excellent build quality
Nexus Revo Slim
Best for Rotational Stimulation
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Unique rotating head mimics a “stroking” motion
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Especially intense for those who’ve already experimented with vibration
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Slimmer than previous models = better fit
Step-by-Step: How to Hit the Prostate With a Dildo
Hitting the prostate for the first time might seem intimidating — but with the right dildo, some patience, and a bit of anatomy knowledge, it can be deeply satisfying. Here’s how to safely and effectively stimulate your prostate using a dildo.
Clean Up & Set the Mood
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Wash your hands and clean your toy with antibacterial soap or a sex toy cleaner.
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Trim your nails and set up a clean, private, comfortable space.
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Optional: take a warm shower or do a light anal rinse for comfort.
Apply Water-Based Lubricant Generously
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Use plenty of body-safe, water-based lube — both on your anus and the dildo.
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Reapply as needed during the session to avoid discomfort or tearing.
Get Into a Comfortable Position
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Best beginner positions: lying on your side with one knee bent, on your back with knees up, or squatting with a mirror view.
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These positions give you better control and help angle the dildo toward the prostate.
Insert Slowly With the Curve Facing Forward
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The prostate is located about 2–3 inches inside, toward the belly button.
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Insert the dildo gently, with the curve facing your front. No force — let your body guide the depth.
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Breathe deeply and stay relaxed.
Find the Sweet Spot
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Once inserted, aim the dildo upward (toward your stomach).
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Look for a firm, round bump — that’s the prostate.
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Apply gentle, rhythmic pressure or slow rocking. Don’t jab or thrust quickly.
Play With Pressure and Rhythm
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Start with light motion and increase gradually.
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Try short pulses, circular motions, or angled pushes.
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Focus on the sensation of fullness, warmth, and muscle contractions.
Combine With External Touch (Optional)
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For stronger orgasms, stimulate your penis, perineum, or nipples while using the dildo.
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Kegel exercises (clenching pelvic floor muscles) can also intensify the buildup.
Pro Tips to Maximize Your Prostate Orgasm
Already found your prostate but want to take things to the next level? Here are expert-backed techniques to help you not only find your prostate — but fully enjoy everything it can offer.
Don’t Rush the Build-Up
Prostate orgasms are often more emotional and full-bodied than penile ones. That means patience pays off. Spend time slowly teasing your way toward climax — don’t force it. The longer the buildup, the more powerful the release.
Add External Touch
Stimulate other erogenous zones like your penis, perineum, or nipples while using the dildo. This activates more nerve pathways and helps create a multi-source orgasm.
Breathe Deep and Use Kegels
Deep belly breathing keeps your pelvic floor relaxed, which is essential for letting the orgasm happen. Combine this with Kegel contractions (tightening and releasing your PC muscles) to build internal pressure and push the orgasm over the edge.
Explore Vibration Timing
If you’re using a vibrating toy like the E-Bass Rocker, start on low settings, and only ramp up as you approach climax. The contrast in intensity can help unlock deeper pleasure.
Reframe What “Success” Looks Like
Not every session ends in fireworks — and that’s okay. Some prostate sessions are exploratory, others ecstatic. Listen to your body, and celebrate progress, not just climax.
Mistakes to Avoid for First-Time Users
Starting prostate play can be exciting — but rushing in without the right prep can quickly turn pleasure into frustration (or even injury). Here are the top mistakes beginners make when using a dildo for prostate stimulation — and how to avoid them.
Skipping Lube
The rectum doesn’t self-lubricate. Always use a generous amount of water-based lubricant, like [JISSBON Aloe Glide], to ensure smooth, safe insertion. Not enough lube is the #1 cause of discomfort.
Using the Wrong Toy
Too big, too rigid, or the wrong shape? A poor-fit dildo can make things painful or ineffective. Start with slim, curved, beginner-friendly toys like the E-Gale Wind.
Going Too Fast
Inserting too quickly or pushing past resistance is a recipe for injury. Go slow, breathe deeply, and never force the toy. Prostate play is about exploration, not performance.
Ignoring Your Body’s Signals
Pain ≠ pleasure. If something feels wrong — stop. Minor discomfort might just mean you need more lube or a different angle. But sharp or persistent pain? That’s your cue to pause.
Skipping Cleanliness
Always clean your toys before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner. Use a flared-base dildo to prevent full insertion and maintain control.
Recommended Prostate Dildos for 2025
Looking for the perfect prostate dildo in 2025? The best ones combine ergonomic shape, body-safe materials, and the right size for targeted stimulation — whether you're a total beginner or experienced user.
E-Bass Rocker – JISSBON
Best Overall for Advanced Users
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Dual stimulation for both prostate and perineum Remote control with multiple vibration modes
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Slightly thicker with a powerful curve for deep pressure
E-Gale Wind – JISSBON
Best for Beginners
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Slim, gently curved, and easy to control
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Quiet motor and soft silicone feel
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Great for learning how to hit the P-spot with precision
Aneros Progasm
Best Non-Vibrating Manual Option
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Classic prostate stimulator loved for its size and angle
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No batteries, just pelvic muscle movement
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Firmer feel for deeper pressure lovers
Tantus Curve Super Soft
Best for Comfortable Depth
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Made with premium ultra-soft silicone
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Perfect curve for consistent P-spot contact
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Harness-compatible, flared base for safety
Nexus G-Rider
Best for Hybrid Stimulation
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Combines a thick shaft with strong vibrations
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Slightly bulkier, best for those with prior experience
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Ridges for extra internal friction
When to See a Sex Therapist or Urologist
Exploring prostate play should feel empowering — but sometimes, your body may signal that it’s time to speak with a professional.
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Sharp or persistent pain during or after prostate stimulation
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Bleeding, swelling, or visible irritation
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Difficulty urinating or unusual pressure after toy use
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Performance anxiety or emotional discomfort tied to anal play
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Uncertainty about anatomy or prostate health due to medical history
A certified sex therapist can also help you work through concerns around shame, communication with partners, or pleasure anxiety — especially if you're new to exploring anal stimulation.
Conclusion
Prostate orgasms aren’t just hype — they’re real, powerful, and completely achievable with the right knowledge, tools, and mindset. Whether you’re using a curved dildo, a remote-controlled massager, or simply starting with gentle exploration, the key is to go slow, stay relaxed, and listen to your body.
With the help of expert-backed tips and JISSBON’s thoughtfully designed toys like the E-Gale Wind and E-Bass Rocker, you’ll be well-equipped to unlock this unique form of pleasure.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can everyone have a prostate orgasm?
Most people with a prostate can achieve orgasm through stimulation, but it may take practice, patience, and the right toy.
What does a prostate orgasm feel like?
It’s often described as deeper, fuller, and longer-lasting than a traditional ejaculation — sometimes even full-body and emotional.
Is it safe to use a dildo in the anus?
Yes, as long as the dildo has a flared base or handle to prevent full insertion, and you're using plenty of lube.
How do I know I’ve found the prostate?
It feels like a firm, rounded bump on the front wall of the rectum (toward the belly button), about 2–3 inches inside.
Can I use a prostate massager even if I’ve never tried anal play?
Absolutely. Start with slim, beginner-friendly designs like the E-Gale Wind and go at your own pace.
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